Sunday, May 10, 2009

Mother's Day

Wow, it's been 3 months since I last sign in, or posted anything new, I'm lucky I can still remember my blogspot account password. It's been a really chaotic period for me since the early of march, that's why there's no updates on March AhLost, sorry...

It's Mother's Day today, I feel really happy for all of you to be able to greet your mother. If you ask me, I don't particularly do anything big on Mother's Day, cos I realize that I don't need Anna Jarvis to declare a day for me to occasionally honor her, but the fact is we should be making them happy everyday. Guys it's cool to do extra stuffs on Mother's Day, but my point is, try your best to make your mom feel embraced by you daily. Most simple gesture, hug them when you get home, praise their cooking is nice though it's the same ol' meal you ate for years, or give them a call frequently for those who studies or work overseas. You might think they are busy and have their own way of killing time, but nothing beats listening your voice to fill the empty hole in their heart caused by your absence.

They have been with you since your birth, feed you, dress you, bath you, hug you, kiss you, stay up all night for you, be happy for you, be sad for you, get angry for you, get hurt for you. They have done so much, what did we do in repay? Nothing. You might think you done something to make up for them throughout the years, but I tell you the truth, it's nothing compare to what she has done for you all along. Is it so much to show a little more love?

I lost my mother in the battle of cancer on the 30th of March, this year 2009. It started as a tumor in the Cologne, then spread to the rest of the body organ most aggressively in the Liver.We missed her dearly, but the fact that she's now free from her suffering and in the embrace of God, is a great consolation for our family.

I no longer have the chance to hug and kiss her, but you do; she will never get to listen to my voice at the other end of the phone, but your mother could. It's all up to you. Do whatever you can for them while you still can, do what I can never ever do anymore.

Thanks Ren and Cherry, for concerning about my absence during April and March, I barely even step into my blog for months, let alone other people's blog, I especially missed the great prank pulled by WenPink on her engagement prank, that's a really good one Wen, too bad I'm not around to get fooled by it, heh..

Happy Mother's Day to all mothers in the world, it's truly a blessing to become a mother, a blessing that God has taken away from Men. You reading this, I hope your mother is a happy blessed mother, for having a baby like you.

Happy Mother's Day mummy... :)

8 comments:

kennethfong said...

wah.. love it! love it! love it! love it! love it! u're an awesome son. =)

Ren said...

Sorry to hear about that dude.
hope you really doing alright....
Are you going to express those feeling on a drawing? or you think you gonna skip this time...

you just take care there.
got chance, we shud meet up!

wen pink said...

IVAN JIMUIZ! I'm so sorry to hear about this.. we really need to talk.. and i changed my MSN few months ago.. will add u back asap! *hugs* i hope u are better by now and yea, i agree with Ren.. we need to meet up! You know i've always wanted to meet up with u, don't you?

Sherry said...

*hugs*

I'm so sorry to hear about this. A mother's love can never be replaced indeed, but you still have memories. Cherish them.

Do take care alright?
We've missed you.

ivn said...

Thx guys, really appreciate your concerns. Been busy catching up with work after a period of absence in work while spending most of the time in hospital for the past few months, so I guess I'll be busy for a while. Will try and arrange for dinner or something sometime, in the meantime keep in touch, god bless.

Kenny said...

didnt visit ur blog for quite some time,didnt knw such thing happened. tht post is touching T_T Ur mom must be happy to hv a son like u, God will bless her and the angels will take care of her. Be strong! :)

ahlost said...

*huGs*

We'll always be there for you ;)

ivn said...

thx for the support guys.... :)